February 2012
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CALLING ON ALL WONDERFUL COSPLAY NERDS OF TUMBLR.
I need cosplay costume ideas for my bezzies 21st. She wants it to be game cosplay, but I’ll take any suggestions!!!
risaswace asked: I really think you guys should win an award for most ethereally beautiful couple ever. :)
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slut-shaming:
CRINJ - A warning about the “campaign group” called Sex Assault Is No Joke.
A WARNING... There is a “campaign group” called RINJ (Rape Is No Joke), otherwise known as SAINJ (Sex Assault Is No Joke) who started up with the objective of removing rape “joke” pages from Facebook. Many people joined their cause, “liking” their page,...
slut-shaming asked: Hey! Could you possibly reblog this warning about the "campaign group" Sex Assault Is No Joke? It's the latest posted - /post/18390172509/crinj-a-warning-about-the-campaign-group-called-sex
Anonymous asked: I don't expect you to publish this, just throwing this idea out there for you. Maybe on a day where you don't have much to do/have spare time, maybe make a click through link to all your posts and explainations about Om and such. "Why I use Om" or something that links to all your posts so that way you don't have to do this all over (or don't have to because the info...
Anonymous asked: When I was only around white vanilla cis feminists, I grew to dislike BDSM and believed that when a woman was submissive to a man in any context, she was willingly giving up her power to a male and was a victim of misogyny. However, once I opened my eyes and actually expanded my social circle, plenty of actual enlightened feminists kicked my ass, and since then I've personally discovered that...
If anyone ever has any qualms about me, a white...
I’ve explained it quite a few times so to save the hassle of everyone getting into heated debate maybe it’d be easier if you sifted through and found the posts where I’ve discussed my reasons for using the Om, getting henna done in the summer etc.
All the posts have been deleted as it was just taking far too much room on my blog and to prevent any further asks about it.
Anonymous asked: I understand where you're coming from in regards to not wanting to identify as a feminist. I'd much rather focus less on the semantics and focus more on the issues that feminism tries to address, like sexism and rape culture and gender stereotypes.
For those who want to know why I don't identify as...
dailymurf:
emmathompson64:
inherhipstheresrevolutions:
Here’s pretty much why (my gf and I have this freaky thing going on where 1. we agree on 99% of everything ever, 2. she can always explain how I feel about things much better than I ever could dream of doing and 3. she knows exactly how to articulate my views).
So relieved! People look at me weird when i tell them that i am not a...
For those who want to know why I don't identify as...
Here’s pretty much why (my gf and I have this freaky thing going on where 1. we agree on 99% of everything ever, 2. she can always explain how I feel about things much better than I ever could dream of doing and 3. she knows exactly how to articulate my views).
feministknope asked: Dworkin and MacKinnon wrote the civil ordinances in the US to try and allow women to sue if they felt they were personally victimised by pornography - their aim was to try and hit pornmakers in the pocket. They're both very anti-porn and very sex-negative. I don't think a lot of feminists these days would consider Dworkin to be mainstream. She definitely doesn't hold the views I...
Anonymous asked: It really annoys me when people say "Oh, it's okay because nobody would give a shit if Chris Brown was white." Way to minimise what he has done by derailing the issue. It's seriously getting to the point where any disagreement with a POC over anything or dislike of anything a POC does, no matter how shitty, leads to tumblr yelling "You're racist!" How is that in...
thepeacockangel replied to your post: Dworkin’s that same woman who thinks heterosexual sex is a form of upholding the patriarchy, right?
Er, she was misquoted on that, but she thinks that all porn is violence against women. As someone who’s actually experienced violence, she needs to STFU
Thanks! And tru dat.
dailymurf asked: Regarding the ask below, yeah she is. Specifically penetrative sex, if I remember correctly.
lent-et-grave asked: Do you know where I can find particular writings of anti-BDSM feminists? In my local kink community, I'm a member of a discussion group and we're supposed to have discussion on feminism and kink soon and I'm afraid it will just be 20 people saying "no because of personal choice" and it'll be over in 10 seconds.
Anonymous asked: Dworkin's that same woman who thinks heterosexual sex is a form of upholding the patriarchy, right?
dailymurf asked: BDSM shaming in mainstream feminism: Andrea Dworkin.
“Intersectionality is not optional. It is not something you can take off and put...”
– Intersectionality Is Not Optional (via satifice
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sheleanstotheleft asked: Hi there, random follower supportive of your decision to not identify as a feminist, seeing as all you seem to be getting is questions and 'you shouldn't because...'. I thought I'd chip in.
snatchem asked: Do you think people would still take offense to the "That's so gay!" comment if it were being used in the true sense of the word. For example: "Robot Unicorn Attack is the gayest game I've ever played." I certainly wouldn't be offended by that as it truly is a gay (happy, carefree, bright, showy) game.
quaverserif asked: I understand where you're coming from with you not wanting to identify as a feminist, but I still identify as one myself and I've always been open about the issues the movement has. I wouldn't want anyone to blame me for any/all faults of the whole movement, just like I wouldn't blame any Christian for all of the faults of their religion (since most of the ones I talk to are...
selfsamewoman replied to your post: Really? You dropped the identity of being a feminist because some people who are feminists are mad about a man beating a woman? And why does everyone think that people only give a shit because he’s black? I think it’s because both Rihanna and Brown were both HUGELY famous at the time AND a picture of the brutality was public, so all of her fans and non-fans all...
snatchem replied to your post: Really? You dropped the identity of being a feminist because some people who are feminists are mad about a man beating a woman? And why does everyone think that people only give a shit because he’s black? I think it’s because both Rihanna and Brown were both HUGELY famous at the time AND a picture of the brutality was public, so all of her fans and non-fans all know...
Anonymous asked: Do you have comeback I can use for when I point out something offensive, (for example: "that's so gay!") and people say that I shouldn't look into it so much/they didn't mean it like that. Also, (you dont have to answer this if it's personal) when/if you came out, did you find that people forget everything else about you and just focus on the fact you like girls?...
Anonymous asked: Planned Parenthood = Abortion Mart, according to kandacelee. tumblr. com
invisibletribbles asked: Really? You dropped the identity of being a feminist because some people who are feminists are mad about a man beating a woman? And why does everyone think that people only give a shit because he's black? I think it's because both Rihanna and Brown were both HUGELY famous at the time AND a picture of the brutality was public, so all of her fans and non-fans all know about this situation...
Dear Nikosnature;
stfuhypocrisy:
There was only ONE time that you were allowed to occupy a uterus that was not your own and that was because that person allowed you to be there. But since you’re no longer a fetus, it’s time to gtfo out everyone’s uteri.
Body positive stickers I found at the student...
dailymurf:
“”Sometimes,” said Pooh, “the smallest things take up the most room in your...”
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Hehe.
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flrowchickawowowww :D <3
Digging out ye old Slutwalk banner for...
dailymurf:
:D sexcitedddd!
You don't actually think a fetus is a human being,...
nessfraserloves:
abaldwin360:
religiousragings:
like-an-echo:
When you hear that a woman gets an abortion, you go nuts about the fetus having rights. You feel sorry for the poor baby. You feel angry because the baby was done injustice. It’s about the baby.
Taking the trigger word here (abortion) out of the equation, it becomes a little more clear what you should think logically.
When...
Anonymous asked: "Face it, pro-choicers don’t want...
prolongedeyecontact:
kandacelee:
Why did abortion numbers drop to nearly 1/2 of the regular abortions once the sonogram was introduced in the clinics?
I’ve never held a woman down and pulled open her eyes and forced her to look at the ultrasound images. You are against good medicine, accurate medicine, informed medicine… WAKE UP! [HA!]
Sure you know what the unborn baby [sic] looks like, but...